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The L Word September 25, 2009

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He used it. And it kind of freaked me out a little. So of course, I was just quiet. Which, that didn’t go over all that well, either. I did try to explain sort of where I’m coming from. It has only been about six or seven weeks. I guess he is a little older and maybe more prone to settle down? At any rate, here’s a pic. Not very flattering for either of us, but it’ll give you a little bit of an idea of who this Keith fellow who loves me is…

Keith & I

In other news, I’ve spent the past few days in bed, sick with some icky flu bug. I thought it was swine flu at first, but I’m already feeling much better and it’s only been like two or three days. That’s going to hurt my paycheck a little bit. But I think I’ll be okay to go back into work tomorrow again…

Also, I took Felipe, my road bike, out on Monday. And had an accident. Fell off my bike. Or, more accurately, fell to the ground WITH the bike, seeing as I was clipped in. Ouch. Check out my gnarly bruise on the outside of my right leg!

Bruise

My visit to see Jen in Indiana two weeks or so ago was awesome! Renee came up for part of the weekend and it was just a really nice, chill weekend. Just what all of us needed, I think. Thanks again, Jen, for the hospitality! :)

i want it that way September 13, 2009

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So I’m a bad bad person. Not only am I not writing in my own blog, I haven’t written in here since…like the beginning of the summer.

Life is pretty okay right now. The job…we’ll skip over for now because I’m past my honeymoon phase and into the frustrated phase. The OTHER job, on the other hand- the one where I took a vacation from the real one for a week of Band Camp- is more than excellent. I work with three awesome men, the show is going great, and every second I’m there (even when I’m exhausted or totally moody from being a girl and stuff) I’m so freaking stoked I’m getting paid to do something I consider playtime. My conducting’s getting better, wearing the blue blazer and khakis is a little creepy, and I get to do Tailgate Band again.

My birthday was more than awesome. I got free yoga (B- I do it 2x a week now and feel soooo good), had breakfast with Ashley, splurged on my first spa day, saw 500 Days of Summer, had dinner with Annie, and went out for karaoke. The only thing that could have made it better was if you guys were there. :( I sang Backstreet Boys and Miley Cyrus and Sonny & Cher.

Other than working, life has remained pretty normal. The occasional and insignificant boy drama, watching too much TV on DVD (working on True Blood right now), and enjoying having my apartment to myself. It’s particularly wonderful when you get along with your sister better than you have in years.

Still FUCKING hot here- I guess we have a few more weeks before the fall bug really starts to bite.

Missing you guys more than words can say. Watching the Cards game, wishing you guys were pigging out and drinking with me. Hope school/work is going well and can’t wait to see you guys in the upcoming months. Let me know when I need to take off work, whether for Homecoming, Graduation, or Xmas- schedule’s due pretty soon.

Have a good week, ya’ll!

Dear Grad School, September 3, 2009

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I’m out. Done with you. Over this.

love, Bianca

No, really. I dropped out of grad school. Okay, that’s not completely true, because I’m still registered for the classes, but I will be dropping the classes shortly. Like tonight or tomorrow. What happened? Well, basically, after two weeks of classes that are repeat from undergrad (yay Eller) but with stupider classmates (ooohhhh hotel/restaurant management kids…) I decided that I wasn’t happy and didn’t like any of it and, really, if I’m not learning anything, then why bother? I’m disappointed with the hotel-specific classes that the college offers in the first place (there are maybe two or three) and the rest of my master’s would be filler classes. No, thank you. Not to mention that practical, hands-on work experience will be much more beneficial than any classroom teaching, at least in this industry.

Of course, it’s too late to add classes so I couldn’t register for real business (aka MBA courses) if I wanted to, nor am I officially a student in the business college. All important details. The new plan, then, is to get my MBA, but start on those classes after I get back from the Peace Corps. So really, dropping out/withdrawing for this semester, but actually postponing and changing my course of study to strictly business (rather than both business and hotel & restaurant management, of which I’m currently only enrolled in the hrm classes, thus the dissatisfaction).

Next, I talked to my boss today at the Houstonian to see if working full-time is an option. It is. My status will change as of next week. And my benefits will start in October (this could turn out to be really tricky with my lovely companion, Diabetes).

No, I haven’t told my parents yet. I thought I would wait until they came back from their Euro-vacation before I told them, so as not to affect their holiday or have to explain everything over email/Skype. Not really sure how this is going to go over…I think there will probably be some mention of paying rent (to my own parents!!), some shock, and a lot of surprise. I’ll post again, post-bomb dropping.

Dear Lindsay, August 27, 2009

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Will you be in Tucson when I come for graduation?  I sure hope so.  You’re making me gyoza!!  :D

Love a hungry and Japanese-food-craving,

Jen!

Serrano Peppers and Tomatillos August 24, 2009

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I’ve come to the conclusion that Arizona spoiled me and ruined me for life. Why? you may ask. Because I’ve been eating really awesome Mexican food for the past ten or twelve years. And Texas…well, they just don’t do it right. They believe in the merits of tex-mex in this state, and maybe only for the reason that it’s got the “tex” part in it so the Texan pride and indepdence can stay alive. Lucky for me, it’s fairly easy to get my hands on unusual ingredients that Mexican recipes call for so I can make my own. Which got me thinking…I think it would be challenging for me to live somewhere where these items are hard to come by. Like Europe, for instance. They generally don’t eat spicy foods over there, so salsa and chile peppers of all sorts are practically non-existent.

she said iced coffee! August 21, 2009

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I joined a group on Flickr called Mugshot Thursdays. It was a friend’s idea, and we just take pictures of ourselves and our drinks on Thursdays! (I think most people use Photobooth..I do, at least.) I thought you guys might be interested, if not to join, at least to check out the pictures. :) Do join, though, if you want!! It’s an open group, and we’d love to have you.

Of Life and Boys and Injuries August 21, 2009

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I’m guilty. And I know it. Of what? …falling off the face of the earth. Meaning I’ve been horrible about keeping in regular touch with most (and by “most” I mean “all”)of you. Please accept my apologies?

Let’s see…where to start. I quit job number one (Alden Hotel), where I was working room service and night audit (um, yeah, accounting and I generally don’t like each other). Neither of those two jobs are areas that I’m interested in for the long-term, so that was a temporary thing regardless. They were surprised and tried to win me back, but to no avail. That’s when I started the other job, the one that I’m in training for front desk at the moment at the Houstonian. So far, so good! We start shadowing this weekend (Saturday morning at 6am, baby! Good-bye weekend). I still have the other job at the Indigo, but I’m not sure how long I’m going to stick around for, what with two part-time jobs and going to school full-time. I know I THINK I’m super woman most of the time, but that might not be quite so feasible.

Mom and Pops are still out of town – I guess they’re only halfway through their trip now. And being at home with Sjoerd alone (or not being at home, thanks to the two jobs and 60+ hours of work) is actually really lonely. I realized tonight that this is really the first time I’ve been completely, utterly alone. I mean, the RA gig is technically considered living by oneself, but the children are always there and my door was very often open, so I don’t know if it really counts. At any rate, I can hardly wait for my parents to come back – is that weird?!

School starts Monday; I had orientation this past week, which wasn’t bad. I was surprised by the dynamics of my class – out of 34 of us, half are Asian transplants…as in, speak limited English. And probably about half of them are going into restaurant management or banquets/catering. I was expecting more hotel kids, as the program is ranked second in the nation (after Cornell, which = $$$$). At the moment, I don’t feel particularly thrilled about the idea of going to school, but I know when I start, it’ll be fine. At least that’s what I keep telling myself.

Another reason for my disappearance (to go full cirlce): some homeboy. Uh-oh. His name is Keith. To give you this specs: he’s 29, has a master’s in accounting (ewwww), he’s from Houston, he’s 6ft 1-ish, he’s a gorgeous mix of half black, half white, and has eaten up substantial amounts of my time. Which I’m perfectly okay with. Ask for more details.

And last but not least, I am such a clutz that I tripped over myself sober the other day and managed to sprain my big toe. Badly. It hurts. Like a bitch. And there’s absolultely NOTHING I can do about it. Lovely. It’s turning all different colours. Of course, I would end up injuring myself during the ONE week that I don’t have any health insurance…

missing AZ August 18, 2009

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I got my Purdue ID today. Running through the union today, trying to avoid the large groups of clueless freshmen here for orientation, I really started reminiscing about being an undergrad/living in the dorm/etc. I miss you guys a ton. It’s ridiculous.

I started to think about how great it was to live on campus, how easy life was before I had to worry about my own money and stuff, and how free I really was to do whatever the fuck I wanted. I miss it. I felt really sad and lonely as I sat there in the union’s soda fountain with my hotdog and fries.

I keep trying to remember how often I’ve been told that you make excellent friends in grad school because you suffer through the work together. And how I didn’t know anyone when I moved to Tucson, either. How I missed my friends in ABQ. (You all should note that I am still quite close with many of my friends in ABQ; don’t think that small comparison means I’ll forget you for whomever I meet here!) It doesn’t really help much. I suspect it won’t until I start meeting some more people.

I have to say that my day really turned around with the librarian appointment I had. The librarian we met with..is a Wildcat!! And her husband is still in Tucson working on his doctorate! And she knits! :D When I got home, she had sent me an email saying that it was nice to meet me and inviting me to a weekly lunch knitting group on campus.

So I guess I’m feeling better. But all I really want to say is I miss you. <3 And write more, bitches!!

back to school shopping August 9, 2009

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So, in the midst of what can only be described as a bout insanity, I decided today would be a great day to go clothes shopping.  WRONG.  Apparently every parent in Tippecanoe County had the same idea.  As I battled whiny teens, cranky moms, and bored little brothers, I realized that this was the first major shopping experience I’ve had on my own (and maybe even the first not involving my mom!).

I also realized how What-Not-to-Wear-”before”-person I’ve been!  Since my job at Ventana ended, I have been such a slob, wearing little other than jeans and t-shirts.  (My hair is also in a state, but I didn’t have the time/money to take care of that today.)  I feel like I made some very successful steps away from that today.

Despite the nagging feeling that perhaps everyone who saw me out today assumed I was a highschooler myself, I have to count this excursion as a huge success.  One bra, two pairs of jeans, and eight (EIGHT!!) shirts later, I am proud to share that I spent less than $200 and didn’t murder any 14 year olds.  ..but I still wish that one or all of you had been there!

By the way, the house is really coming together.  If you haven’t already seen, I posted pictures on my own blog a little while back.  I’m hoping to have more time to post here (and there, really) now that things are calming down a bit.

Some Life Conclusions July 11, 2009

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I always intend to be much more succinct than I actually am when I get on here (maybe a sign that I should have my very own blog, like a big girl?!). I also think that maybe I should wait until tonight to post, in the middle of my ever-boring vampire shift. Instead, I’m writing before I take a nap. :)

Today’s conclusions: (1) Things are not what they seem/appearances are deceiving. (2) Childbirth is icky and there is definitely NO WAY IN HELL I am ever giving birth…after listening to my sister’s (the older one, silly) description of giving birth to her little baby Tim, that is NOT natural or healthy, and definitely NOT for me. (3) U of A wants to keep me as a student! My filing for my Eller degree somehow got all screwed up and didn’t happen. So really I’m only half the graduate that I thought I was. Unfortunately, the Eller degree is the more important and worthwhile degree, as opposed to the Spanish. Lucky me. This means more paperwork, more phone calls, and of course I still have to pay that $35 fee even though it’s their fault this didn’t get taken care of properly. Bad customer service. But then I guess U of A doesn’t care.

In other news, I booked a ticket to go out to Tucson for Homecoming weekend! Thursday-Monday, November 5-9. If you’re in town, I fully expect to see you. Also, got my first pay check today, yayyyyy!! But I still want to quit my job. More updates to come with time…

And to echo Lindsay, I miss you all SO much, it’s unreal.